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Man, this trip was cursed, particularly the travel portion of it.

I woke up this morning to the sound of rain against the windows in our "suite" up in the sky in Honolulu. Very pleasant.

After my morning shower, I decided to go out for a walk since we had a plenty of time before we were going to go out to lunch before returning home. Though I took an umbrella with me (I *always* have an umbrella in my backpack because I live in Hawaii), it turned out that the morning shower was somewhat superfluous.

Fun walk! And it let me improve my patchwork knowledge of Oahu neighborhoods, something I do more every time I'm there. I walked through Chinatown and then up a small stream that's actually the convergence of two streams and then circled around a couple of parks, one that I've been to before and one that I definitely want to after seeing it in the distance. It was raining, but my umbrella kept me from getting TOO wet. And then it just started pouring when I was at least a block from the hotel. I was very wet by the time I got back, even with umbrella. (Should have brought a rain coat too! Both Kimberly and I thought about it!)

I hung out at the hotel room for another hour or so, and didn't really get dry, and then we headed out to the Dim Sum restaurant. We got pretty wet just getting into the car! But the Dim Sum was great. (Kauai is a Dim Sum desert, so we make sure to partake when we're in the "big city".)

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But after that we were off to the airport and that's where the fun began.

We had a 1.20 flight, with the plan being to land on Kauai about 2, take care of a few errands in town, and then come home well before my 5pm game.

Except I look up our flight in FlightAware and click through to the previous flight, the one that's supposed to supply us with a plane. Hawaii runs its interisland flights very tight, and so it's always one flight arrives, people get off, and they're immediately loading people for the next leg. And I soon discover that our would-be plane is circling Honolulu. I watch it come in for one landing, then pull up after being down to a few hundred feet, and then it does it again, and then the flight is heading way, way west and I'm pretty sure it's decided to go land on Kauai instead. (And it eventually does.)

The culprit is of course that weather. (Remember that drenching rain? Foreshadowing!) So when they start making an announcement I *know* they're going to be cancelling the flight, our second cancellation of the trip, and so I'm most of the way to the gate agent by the time they say that. There's two people already in front of me. The second is a very rude guy who gets all Karen-y about how he's in line and people have to stand behind him, and I tell him, no we're not going to stand in the middle of the whole walkway like he does, but yes he's welcome to keep his place in front of me. "CALM DOWN", he tells me, and I start ignoring him at that point. I line up to the side like a normal human being as does everyone else, but he's definitely gone onto my overentitled douchebag list. And, hey, it turns out that he's the father of the three children who have been literally RACING up and down the small walkway screaming for the last 30 minutes.

The sad part here is the total lack of karma. As our flight is being cancelled, there's ANOTHER flight for Kauai that's boarding (because we're at least 30 or 60 minutes behind by this point, and Hawaiian runs flights every 30 or 60 minutes). The gate agent deals with the first gal in line then douchebag, his wife, and their three hellspawn, and she tells him he's lucky, he got the last seats on the flight that's just leaving.

(And I suddenly know how Amazing Racers feel, and I'm not even racing for a million dollars, I'm just trying to get home.)

But then she prints up my ticket, and it's for that flight. YAY! Except she somehow missed Kimberly. And so she rips up the first ticket, prints two more, and they're for a 2.30 flight. That's unfortunately over in another section of the airport, which sucks because of Kimberly's knee problems, but we hustle over.

Hustle and wait.

Shortly after our 2.30 departure has flipped to 3.15 and I've watched THIS plane that's supposed to be heading our way sitting on the tarmac at Kona for an hour before _finally_ taking off, an announcement tells us that due to the weather (which seems to have dropped from torrential to light rain) ALL OF THE RUNWAYS ARE CLOSED and all planes are being diverted back to their airports.

I start to wonder if we're ever getting home.

But things look like they're starting to turn around, because our plane doesn't. It keeps resolutely heading our way, and I've now got some of seatmates also trying to get home also watching the animated plane move on my laptop. And it finally does one broad loop of Honolulu AND LANDS.

The drama's not quite over yet.

They're slow to start boarding.

We sit around for a while on the plane because they're loading luggage forever, I assume because they're collecting it from other flights.

And then we get onto the runway, and all is well

AND THEN THEY PULL US BACK OFF THE RUNWAY, TO THE SIDE.

This time, it was apparently a data problem. They said it was something about the count or weight of their cargo. I have to guess the actual value didn't match their computer value. But they managed to get an "update from [or for] the computer" and then they were allowed to take-off.

Wow.

Very turbulent ride back.

But Julie the Benz was waiting at the Lihue parking lot. We just ducked in under a day away, which meant $15 rather than $30 parking fee.

Taco Bell, Home. It's after 5pm by this point, but we've already cancelled the day's gaming. So it's The Challenge instead.

Kimberly agrees when I called it a hellish trip. Except maybe the Dim Sum. And the walk before it became a drenching.

I mean, well worth going, because Kimberly got her MRI, and we already got the results. (Did I bury the lede? I probably buried the lede. But her results were a sesquipedalian mishmash of huge words that pretty much said she has a very rare problem with some sort of fracturing of something that is likely to require surgery, and she set up an appointment with an orthopedist, but in the continued series of we-can't-get-timely-medical-care-on-Kauai, it's scheduled for mid-January.)

But almost everything that could go wrong with the travel did.

Happy to be home. Doesn't seem to be raining, nor has it since our return.
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It's the Day to take Kimberly to Oahu for her seizure study!

Yep, we now get to fly for some medical treatment!



Waking up at 5am to go to the airport in Hawaii turns out to be not so early as it was in California. I mean, that's literally true, it's 8am in California. But also we've now got an earlier schedule (because I wanted to stay somewhat on west-coast time) so, I'm up two hours early, rather than in the middle of the night.



I drive out to Lihue Airport, and note to Kimberly that this was the first time we'd ever drive ourselves there.

After parking, I take a picture of the car and message it to my dad so he knows where it is. For Complex Reasons(tm), my dad will be picking up Julie the Benz later today. (He does, later assures me that she's made it home safely, and also sends a picture of Callisto oh-so-patiently waiting for Lucy to finish her wet food. Car and cats taken care of!)



It's fortunate that there's pretty much no one in the security line, because our local government has made it even more of a godawful mess to get into an airport by now requiring you to fill out quarantine-related forms prior to getting into the TSA line.

One form is about our business and where we're settling in on the other island, which we note doesn't even have a checkbox for "Medical". We're just told to check "Business".

Pretty much everyone in line is flying on a medical exemption, so that seemed like a bit of an oversight, but oversight has been the name of the game for the Hawaiian government since we got here, in all senses of the word.

And then we're required to initial and sign a form acknowledging the 14-day interisland quarantine, which I found very questionable because we explicitly have forms exempting us from the quarantine due to Kimberly's having medical needs to be taken care of on Oahu. The guy helping us with the forms just nods and says: sure, just keep that exemption paper with you.

(I might be required to show my papers was the very explicit subtext.)

In any case, I decide this isn't a fight to fight at the airport even though I think it entirely inappropriate for me to sign, pretty much duress, a form acknowledging a quarantine that does not apply to me.



The interisland quarantine ends tomorrow. The guy helping us with the forms notes that we'll have different forms to fill out when we come back, as a result.

Today's forms, which take about 10 minutes to fill out, only worked without totally hamstringing the airport because there are so few people coming in. But if the other forms are similarly bad, as the end of quarantine allows more people to travel, well we'd better make sure we have plenty of time when we go back to the Honolulu airport in several days.



Lihue Airport has a big open lobby just past the TSA. We hang out there until our flight is boarding.



Apparently Airport Security doesn't have to wear masks. Or socially distance. Or work.

Because three of them are just standing there yacking, practically leaning on each other, the whole time we're in the lobby.



Finally, we head to the non-socially-distanced gate.

They're now boarding from the back of the plane to the front in clumps of about four rows at a time, to try and keep people from encountering each other ... but more than half the seats are already filled when we go back to get our seats (rows 15-12). Good going, guys.



The woman in front of me keeps snuffling, even taking down her mask once to blow her nose.

At least she presumably passed a temperature check. Unless she Karened her way out of it.



I'm shocked that they're still serving drinks on the interisland hop, despite COVID-19. Because it just sounds like an encouragement for everyone to take off their masks while all in close quarters.

Fortunately Lady Snuffles doesn't get a drink.


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Kimberly had a good morning, but we realize that she's having cognitive problems on the plane when I try and talk to her several times (to ask if she wants that drink) and she is having terrible troubles hearing and understanding me. And only later does she realize it's because she didn't think to take her earbuds out.



In Honolulu we take our first shared ride car in five and a half months.

It's a little weird, driving on a highway, with an urban center around us. Honolulu is a lot more like Berkeley than Kauai is.



There's queueing and screening to get into the hospital. They don't have Kimberly on their list, but Mini has prepared us for this, and I just hand over the letter about Kimberly's admission, and that's that. They take our temperatures, tell us what they are, and pass us in.

Up in the Epilepsy Monitoring Unit (EMU), they start quizzing and testing Kimberly. I'm glad I'm there, because she's having increasing difficulties finding words as first the morning and afternoon go on.



During a break, we order lunch. The hospital has a decent menu, and the most delightful thing is that you can order a "guest tray" for a visitor. Yay, this is a time not to be sitting in cafeterias in Honolulu. And we're told the tray is $10 no matter what's on it, so we should pile it high.

So Kimberly orders some beefmac, and I choose a ham-and-cheese sandwich, imagining a sizzling sandwich straight off the grill with the cheese melted over the ham on the toasted sourdough. And I order some potatoes and a brownie. I try and order a pear smoothie, but that's for patients only.

What I get is two slices of ham and one slice of cheese on bread so tasteless that it could only be called sourdough in Hawaii, four halves of very teeny potatoes, and about 1 oz of brownie. Ah well, I didn't have to go to a cafeteria.




We talk to the doctor and he urges us not so say that Kimberly is having "seizures", but instead "events".



Jerry the EEG-glue guy (and monitor, apparently) then comes in and spends over an hour precisely placing and gluing 33 electrodes to Kimberly's head. It's a careful, time-consuming process. When He finally finishes, he talks about the seizure button.

And by this time it's obvious that Kimberly has really tipped over into a bad state. But it's so hard to classify "is she having a seizure" (an "event") when it's such a gradual non-discrete thing. But as we're asking if this mighjt meet the criteria, Jerry goes ahead and hits the button, so I guess that amswers that, and a few different people come in and document how Kimberly is doing.

So, yay? That's the whole point of being here.



Everyone seems to think I'm going to be staying by Kimberly's bedside 24x7, which strikes me as just short of crazy. I mean, yes, besides getting her to the hospital in the first place, my point in being here and not home is to help her feel safe and cared for. But there's only so much I can do to stay here and retain my sanity.

I can't visit Kimberly twice a day here, as was my norm last time she was in the hospital, because their current requirement at Queen's is just one visitor one time a day. Still, I'll spend a few hours here, and of course chat with her if she wants elsetime.

But I feel a little disloyal in that the hospital staff all seems to have different opinions of what I'll be doing.



(Mind you: the hospital staff all seem to think that Mayor Kawakami on Kauai is god. I'm able to just bite my tongue on that one, because I'm well aware that our cases were already mostly extinct by the time the shelter-in-place came down, and I'm aware that he's done a real disservice to Kauai in his lack of response to improving conditions. But folks here seem to be very single minded: it's only about how Kawakami has [maybe] stopped the spread of COVID-19 on Kauai. Because they're health workers, so that's of course all that's on their minds.)



Kimberly falls asleep while I'm there and a bit later suddenly awakes and seems totally panicked. I tell her, "Don't pull anything out!" She's sure something is really wrong, but her response is to push the "seizure button", which is a great response.

Two nurses rush in and record things again, but they're much, much terser than they were before.



Kimberly says I should head out a bit after 3. She says she can lay in a hospital bed all her own.

I walk Honolulu back to my hotel.

Not a particularly pretty city, but I probably think that even more after five and a half months on Kauai.



The hotel fortunately seems nice enough. But there's a homeless guy checking in in front of me. And he's got a mask on, but is wearing it as a chin strap. I keep as far back as possible.

When he can't show an ID, he wanders out and some guy wanders in with him and does all the paperwork for a night's stay at $200 (almost twice what I'm paying).

It appears to me that guy #2 represents the organization that puts homeless people up after they've illegally shipped out here on planes. I'm not convinced you're actually making Honolulu a better place, guy #2.



Afterward, there's no problem for me. I show my medical exemption, and that's that, no attempt to give me a one-use key or set the police on me.



Afterward I wander Honolulu more. I was actually trying to go down to the waterfront, just to see it (again), but I got turned around and so wandered back in the direction of Queen's before turning around. I finally land at Taco Bello where I grab some food to bring home.

I understand better why everyone at the hospital is praising Kawakami, because Mayor Caldwell of Honolulu is an absolute moron in the opposite direction.

First, we got a homeless population that's about 5% of the people I see on the streets, and they're wandering freely with no respect for any health guidelines, and unlike the guy being booked into the hotel, none of them even have masks that they're not wearing. And in fact more than half the people I see while out aren't wearing masks. In particular, if they're white or they're male, the odds are very good they're unmasked.

And Caldwell ain't doing anything about either problem, according to the readers of the Star*Advertiser because he's a coward.

So we have Kawakami who is killing our economy even when COVID is pretty dealt with on our island, but in the process has really created a spirit of community sacrifice.

And we have Caldwell who is just killing the people, and who has instilled a community sociopathy, where more than half the people don't seem to care.



So that's Oahu on day one.

Fingers crossed on the study.

And I'm not sure I'll be making it to Waikiki, both because work + Kimberly are going to keep me busy, and because I see the spread of COVID-19 on this island isn't just about parties, it's about the people.

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